How Do I Encourage a Reluctant Reader to Read?
Strong reading skills are at the heart of success in the 11+ exams. But what if your child simply isn’t picking up books willingly? Many parents worry when their child shows little enthusiasm for reading, yet the good news is that there are tried-and-tested ways to help. Here are six practical strategies to encourage a reluctant reader and build the habits that make a real difference:
1. Give Them Ownership
Children are more motivated when they choose their own reading material. Encourage your child to explore a wide range—novels, comics, magazines, or even short story collections. When they feel ownership, they are far more likely to engage.
2. Build a Reading Routine
Set aside a short, regular time for reading every day—ten minutes before bed, or after dinner. Consistency helps children see reading as a natural part of life rather than an occasional chore.
3. Read Together and Discuss
Shared reading is powerful. Take turns reading aloud and talk about the characters, themes, or “what might happen next.” These conversations not only make reading enjoyable but also develop comprehension skills—essential for the 11+.
4. Link Books to Their Interests
If your child loves football, nature, or mysteries, choose books in those areas. Once they experience the thrill of a story that speaks to their passions, they’ll be more open to exploring other genres.
5. Make Reading Visible and Social
Children who see parents and siblings reading are more likely to follow suit. Family reading time, visits to the library, or even a small “home book club” can make reading a normal, shared activity.
6. Celebrate Effort, Not Just Achievement
Praise your child for trying new books, finishing a chapter, or even asking thoughtful questions about a text. Encouragement builds confidence, and confident readers are far more likely to persevere with the challenging comprehension passages found in the 11+.
Helping a reluctant reader doesn’t happen overnight—it’s about building steady habits and positive associations. With patience, consistency, and the right approach, your child can grow from avoiding books to enjoying them, while developing the strong reading and comprehension skills they’ll need to succeed in the 11+.
